Monday, June 04, 2012

The Best Gift of All....

Like Winston Churchill said . "I have nothing to offer but blood, toil, tears and sweat.”....

Sometimes I need to say that too. 

Tears, toil and sweat are almost mandatory in Mumbai, whether one likes it or not. Given the messed up infrastructure, crowds, and the weather.  And when it comes to blood, whether in wartime or peacetime, one way for ordinary folks like us to give blood , is to "donate blood"....

I was initiated into this 42 years ago as a young adult in Pune. My parents recommended such things.  The late 60's  was wartime in the country, our college, one of Pune's finest, had organized a blood donation, and we went in droves.  The experience was interesting to say the least, and some of us  learned that we could withstand the sight of 350 cc's of blood, without falling into a dead faint.  I followed that up    off and on , and today, my children do the same.  It helps if you stay in an institutional area where proper camps are arranged with safeguards, instrumentation, attending doctors, and  adequate patient care and excellent documentation and checking of individuals. 

I have known folks, fairly well educated,  who avoid talking about this. They alarm their kids, albeit unknowingly, with misinformation. Mobilizing blood donors to  contribute for a friends  major surgery, and trying to do the transport arrangements, some folks I knew well, even started crossing the road away from me, seeing me come by.  

A few young folks , curious about all the noise and rushing around, came to ask details . Can you get up and walk afterwards ? Do people faint ? How long does it take ? Does it hurt ?  Will I miss classes the next day ?   What about getting infections through the syringe needles ?  Can I go to work straight from there ?


Yes. Anyone above 18yrs who weighs 45+ kgs and has a hemoglobin count of more than 12.5 can donate. Remember, there is no factory to produce blood except the human body.  Every unit of 350ml blood collected saves 3 lives, the 350ml is buffer blood in our body and is re-generated within 24 hours.  Today, a fresh disposable syringe/needle is used for every person, who is deemed fit to be a blood donor. 


You are queried about your medical history, medications, etc. Your weight, blood pressure and haemoglobin is checked and recorded , your blood group is ascertained, and those satisfying the set criteria are allotted a specialized blood collection bag. You then lie down as instructed, quietly squeezing a rubber ball in the donating hand, and your blood pressure is constantly monitored. I have seen folks nonchalantly messaging away on their phones and playing games with the free hand while the blood donation is in progress.  Nothing dramatic happens, your 350 cc is collected in no time, and they disconnect all the paraphernalia and ask you to lie down for sometime.  Ointments/tiny tapes are put where you were poked by the needle.  

You then relax in an area where they serve you  tea, coffee. fruit juice and biscuits.  You are ready to go.  To work, to school, home , anywhere. I know someone who even went swimming after 2 hours.  The personnel at these places are almost always gracious,polite and grateful to you.   You get a card as a blood donor with details.  Should anyone ever need blood, your card will entitle them to a bag of blood, no questions asked.  Those who have had to mobilize blood for  major surgery at one of the lesser hospitals will know what I mean. 


This time , it was at one of the most upmarket areas near us. A very posh supermarket near  fancy shopping areas and coffee shops, alphonso mangoes cascading on show outside, cars driving up to a hotel , with valet parking happening, and folks in their casual Sunday best ambling in to shop. 


 Those like us who knew about this event and came specifically for it, went ahead with the process. As usual , I was rejected because of age , but the daughter sailed through and donated her blood. 

This was an event specifically to help people who had Thalassemia.  This is a disorder of the blood, where the patient has problems with the haemoglobin in the blood. This affects carrying of oxygen all over the body, and the thalassemia patient needs to have blood transfusions every 15 days. Which causes its own problems with iron stores in the body.   There are 1 lakh thalassemic chidren in the country and a thousand of them are receiving regular transfusions in Mumbai alone.  To know more about this please see this.  


There was a steady stream of folks coming in, mostly young, many of them ladies,  but many in their 50's and 40's too.  And there was a wait for beds. Which was great......


Outside, in the sun, a  midsize car swathed in a huge banner announcing the blood donation event was parked at a vantage point.  There were these young folks standing outside holding placards saying "Donate Blood" in glorious red and white.  Almost marketing the event. 

I've never seen this before.  Real time marketing of the event.  Yes, there are normally welcome arches, and folks volunteering services, but inside the venue, with the documentation, refreshments, assisting the desk people etc etc. I have never seen anyone standing outside  and urging folks to go in.


But this was like advertising the event, looking so much a part of the supermarket ads announcing deals and stuff.  

It can be insensitively abused. 

Visions of "Donate blood and get 1 dozen mangoes free" or what is worse, some unscrupulous educational institution coming up with  "Show cards for 2 blood donations and get 10 marks added to your total" .......  (I've known of people who showed up 5 times for some  social service class in Dharavi as part of NSS, in the late 90's,  and added 5 marks (or was it 5 percent?) to their already outrageous totals , now exceeding 100 as a result. Happens only in India....)

There are no deals in blood.

Donating has to be completely voluntary. 
 
But we are a country where folks are blind to blood when its a matter of their life, death or surgery, but very much aware of it when they query the biological background of an adopted child of marriageable age. 

So much of  educating of the public still required .....

22 comments:

  1. Blood Donation is certainly a noble cause to be undertaken. I agree with your views '"But we are a country where folks are blind to blood when its a matter of their life, death or surgery, but very much aware of it when they query the biological background of an adopted child of marriageable age. " This attitude does not change even if Indian migrates to other countries and claim themselves to be more advanced and civilised than before...

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    1. Akshaya, I have found that community life and our bringing up really decides how we think. It appears to have nothing to do with formal education. So long as there is a "whats in it for me" attitude, these people wont change.

      But thank you for your words of support !

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  2. I dont know if you know this, but in Baroda, where I lived, there was this very famous Garba location...United Way...it had free entry for girls, but boys had to pay money often upto 2000 Rs for 9 nights of dancing..one of their criteria to give passes to boys was that they had to donate blood..if they did, they would surely get a pass (The place was popular and passes were scarce) I dont know whether it was a good thing or bad thing, but I know one thing for sure, they did collect A LOT OF BLOOD!

    Big salutes to your daughter :)

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    1. R'Mom, Thank you and the daughter salutes you right back ! Yes , I have heard about social service organizations who do this, but this is different from "deals"; dancing the garba is not a life-essential being traded against donating blood. Its like asking a kid to do extra sums before being allowed to play. I might add , that this particular organization was a Gujarati community organization, who do these blood collections many times in a single month.

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  3. I was rejected as a donor since I had jaundice thrice in my teens :-(

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  4. Your daughter is unique. I was unable to give blood many years ago in a camp because I was underweight! My son had donated a couple of times, I know.

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    1. Sandhya, thank you. One has to make a conscious effort to inculcate this attitude in one's children. The daughter is very happy to donate. I used to donate right up to my mid 50's and they started then rejecting me for low haemoglobin. Now age disqualifies me, although the HB is excellent. So I try and blog about it...:-)

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  5. Indeed the best gift.Even today, Suranga, educated people in the 20-30 age group assume that a single instance of blood donation will a/make them weak b/ reduce their libido (yes, really) c/ need a day off..and all sorts of stupid things.

    So glad to see your post. God bless your daughter. What a charming smile!

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    1. Vidya, Thank you for sending your blessings. Greatly appreciated . Yes, young folks, who dont think twice before defying elders, simply end up blindly believing all kinds of blood myths propagated by the same elders.

      I sometimes think donating blood is maybe akin to going to temples .....

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  6. Is the bright little thing in the first photo Pankaja? She is a wonderful example of how youth should and could make a difference to the society. And as for those who question the lineage of kids, it is sick in the extreme that they can't see goodness when it hits them in the eye!

    Every drop of blood counts, especially when it is to save a life -- any life.

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    1. Zephyr, Yes ! The bright little thing in the first photo and tall thing in the last one is her. I even have a photo while donating . I do so wish that folks her age learn about this and participate. Currently, things are restricted to FB likes and comments :-)

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  7. I remember in college we used to donate blood on occasions of technical events. In return we used to get attendence for the day. there were such long queue's of students... but in the end everybody knew it was for a good cause.

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    1. Mithil293, Welcome to this blog, and yes, many folks start out donating blood in college. I did too, in my time. We never got anything in return. :-) Except maybe, some decent values and learning in our young age ...

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  8. It is a joy to see young people use their time and effort in such a constructive way. You must be very proud of Pankaja- and rightly so!

    Unfortunately there is still a lot of ignorance and needless apprehension about blood donation in our society....

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    1. Manju, thank you! It was nice to see many young folks walking in, and even some middle aged types. Pankaja donates everytime they have a donation drive, provided it is not within 3-4 months after the earlier donation. That is the rule. You would probably not be surprised to know that some folks think she shouldnt be doing this....what can you say ?

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  9. There are mobile blood units which come to some institutes in this country and its advertised in advance and you have to register. Sadly, they don't take my blood as they found some malaria antibodies in the blood..I wish there was a way to overcome the problem but apparently they had some fatalities at some point of time and so they are careful. Did not have problems donating in India though! Hope more people donate blood and also become organ donors.

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    1. Gayatri, thank you for the comment. I have seen such mobile units here too, and in fact had the opportunity to donate blood in such a set up several years ago, when i was still qualified to donate. They are not common though. I do wonder about this as we routinely have mobile hospitals and stuff which travel in trains and special buses and perform even surgeries in rural areas. I guess blood donation needs to be publicised more....

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  10. Yes, the information needs to disseminated more often. I have tried twice to donate blood but since my hemoglobin was about 12.5, they refused. My husband donates regularly. In offices, they have decent blood donation camps. And, I agree that this must be voluntary. Greed cannnot be a reason for donating blood.

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  11. I had donated blood once in college for a surgery. Some girls came into the hostel and told us about a requirement for blood in a near by hospital. I went ahead for it. They didn't do any health checks and all. But I think they used a disposable syringe. I am not sure because I didn't look! I am scared of needles. Especially the ones that poke into me. :D

    They drew the required blood and gave me some glucose water. I rested for a while and joined my friends for a movie later. Now I am too anaemic to donate blood. There are many people who are still wary of donating blood. It is great that you are spreading such awareness. This is my first time here and I am a fan. :)

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  12. A little digression:You know something, I was so sure your blog would pour this lovely title song of 'Unch Majha Jhoka...' :) Hugs!!!!

    I've to donate blood..I've not done it yet for some unexplained reasons... :( and trust me I feel guilty for the same!

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  13. I never understood why they keep away from blood donation.... I kept trying to give blood and then succeed couple of times but

    I feel there should a permanent facility where one can go any time ( 24hrs) and donate.

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